Why Do I Worry About My Relationship So Much - Must-Read Dangers of Relationship Anxiety

You are in a relationship with a good man, and things are going very well. But sometimes, you can't help but worry and wonder whether things really are as good as they seem. Is your relationship perfect, or are you just missing the signs of disaster? Keep reading to discover why you worry about your relationship so much, and why you need to stop - before it destroys your relationship...

There are two reasons why a woman worries about her relationship so much.

1. The first reason is because she has hidden insecurities about herself. Underneath many seemingly confident and successful women, is the secret fear that she is not pretty, sexy, smart, lovable, good enough to be loved. When you fear that you are not good enough, you tend to worry about your relationship - sometimes as a way to avoid facing your own personal issues, and lack of self-esteem. It's easier to blame, worry about your relationship, and fail at them, instead of looking at what you are really afraid of.
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3. The second reason women worry about their relationships so much (even when your relationship is going well), suffer because they have difficulty coping with the uncertainty that comes along with any romantic, love relationship. Maybe you've been hurt by a previous relationship, or you grew up in an environment where you saw other women get their hearts broken by another man, etc. In any case, there is a part of you is scared and terrified of getting hurt. So you are in constant 'alert mode', just watching for a sign to see whether the man you care about is losing interest and pulling away. You don't want to get caught unawares by his sudden decision to cheat or leave the relationship.

Even though you may think that your fears can protect you from being hurt by a man, think about it... Are you really happy living this way? Do you truly feel safe constantly worrying about your relationship? Really stop and think about it. Because if you are still unsure about whether it is safe to let go of your hang-ups and insecurities, let me explain things to you in another way...

By holding onto your constant worrying and insecure feelings, you are seriously sabotaging your chances of having a great relationship with the man of your dreams. A man who loves you wants you to be happy, so in the beginning, he will put in the effort to reassure you about his feelings. But after a while, if he starts to think that he will never be able to do enough to make you happy, he will withdraw and pull away from you. He withdraws because when you're not happy, he feels like a failure. And a man can't stay in a long-term relationship with a woman who constantly makes him feel like a failure. He won't stay with a woman if he thinks he can't bring her the happiness she deserves, even he loves you very much.

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