So, I get this question or a question similar to it quite often.
Do you have to be good at flirting with a woman if you are going to have
success with women? I would assume that the answer to this is pretty
obvious, but I guess that it's not that obvious to everyone. Yes, you do
have to become good at flirting with a woman IF you want to have
anything more than just random luck when it comes to attracting a woman.
One of the things that differentiates guys who do amazingly well with
women versus guys who struggle to even get a good conversation going, is
the ability that they have to flirt.
So, now that you know that you do have to be good at flirting with a woman, what are some tips that can help you get good?
1. Make female friends.
Male and females when they are even just friends still do a little bit of flirting. Think of it as being the batting cage where you get to take your practice swings. She may not be someone that you are going to date,. but you can still get a clue as to what works to make a woman laugh, smile, and flirt back and forth with you if you have female friends that you interact with regularly.
2. Flirt often.
Ever notice how guys who are good at flirting with women seem to always be flirting with women? The more experience that you get, the better you are going to get. So, when you are at the store and there is a pretty clerk checking you out at the register or helping you pick out something, flirt with her a bit. You don't have to be actually expecting to get a date out of it. You are just getting experience.
3. Don't be too serious.
Guys who put on that "serious game face" when they are trying to flirt with a female usually don't do as well as guys who are relaxed and at ease and look like they are just having a good time. You don't want to come across like you are putting in a lot of effort, you want to look like you are just enjoying yourself and that there is just a natural chemistry between you and a woman you happen to be having a good time with. Being too serious is one of those common mistakes that a lot of men seem to make that gets in the way of their success with women.
So, now that you know that you do have to be good at flirting with a woman, what are some tips that can help you get good?
1. Make female friends.
Male and females when they are even just friends still do a little bit of flirting. Think of it as being the batting cage where you get to take your practice swings. She may not be someone that you are going to date,. but you can still get a clue as to what works to make a woman laugh, smile, and flirt back and forth with you if you have female friends that you interact with regularly.
2. Flirt often.
Ever notice how guys who are good at flirting with women seem to always be flirting with women? The more experience that you get, the better you are going to get. So, when you are at the store and there is a pretty clerk checking you out at the register or helping you pick out something, flirt with her a bit. You don't have to be actually expecting to get a date out of it. You are just getting experience.
3. Don't be too serious.
Guys who put on that "serious game face" when they are trying to flirt with a female usually don't do as well as guys who are relaxed and at ease and look like they are just having a good time. You don't want to come across like you are putting in a lot of effort, you want to look like you are just enjoying yourself and that there is just a natural chemistry between you and a woman you happen to be having a good time with. Being too serious is one of those common mistakes that a lot of men seem to make that gets in the way of their success with women.
The better you are at flirting with a woman the easier it is to make her feel attracted to YOU.
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