Looking For A Chinese Girlfriend? Know Your Competition

By Meng Li


Seems like Chinese women are increasingly becoming increasingly popular nowadays and it's also certainly not uncommon for western men to fantasize about possessing a Chinese woman by their side. Chinese ladies have been recognized for their obedient, mysterious character as well as for their respect toward their husbands. These Chinese characteristics have for ages been forgotten by most western women, thus causing significant amounts of men to look for a Chinese wife.

Locating a Chinese wife was formerly a simple, if not ridiculously easy, task for any foreigner residing in China. Many Chinese women once thought that they are the best off marrying a foreigner, than risk being with a Chinese man. The reasons why Chinese women were so drawn to western men was related to their ever ending hunt for stability. Most foreigners were thought of as wealthy and this supposed wealth attracted many poor peasant girls attempting to make money in the big cities, like Shanghai and Beijing.

China' s recent rise and economic boom leaves abandoned factories in the United States, endless mining holes in Africa in addition to a hell of a great deal of new rich men in China. Its is not uncommon to see expensive high rise buildings being constructed across the country and even secondary cities like Xi' an boast a rapid growing amount of well-known western luxury automobile handlers and western luxury goods.

This proves that Chinese men, are in possession of what their women have always truly loved...money. And not simply some bucks, but actually lots of it! The new financial circumstances in China is making many ladies stop yearning foreigners and return their undivided awareness to their once ignored Chinese men.

The actual fact is that only a Chinese man can fully understand, or better said, fully tolerate a Chinese woman' s infinite hunger for attention. A western man is raised to assume that the ideal woman is the woman that he should share his life with. A Chinese man is raised to believe that an ideal woman will be the woman he's prepared to live for and dedicate his life to. Chinese girls know this and they don' t hesitate to make men work for them. Today' s ideal Chinese boyfriend, according to modern Chinese girls, is a guy who has a good education, has some cash and is also happy to run around all day doing little chores for her. Maybe the crucial reason why most Chinese men are so tolerant and so happy to fulfill everything single wish imposed by their girlfriends is the fact in China a girl is generally difficult to get. In the past, the one child policy has generated mass abortions of female babies favoring males. The end result of this, is the fact today there are many more men than women in China, leading men to believe that obtaining a girlfriend is virtually a privilege. Western men, in the contrary, are used to residing in more balanced societies and even having a greater part of women.

So if you're looking for a Chinese girlfriend, you need to know that your Chinese competition is getting fiercer. The western male is starting to become much less attractive to Chinese women, since now they can find in China everything they ever dreamed about getting from someone from abroad. Making your Chinese girlfriend happy, might mean making changes towards way you think and even becoming a professional butler for your future sweet China girl.




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