There exists in the realm of Pickup Artists many schools of thoughts. Naturally with these schools of thoughts there exists different gurus, specialists, pickup artists, and disciples. There are systems that concentrate on simply getting as much sex as you can, systems that instruct you how you can seduce as many girls as possible, and those that teach you ways to obtain and maintain real relationships. All these pickup artist tactics are variations of a basic system but at various levels of sophistication. I personally dislike the get-as-much-sex-as-you-can systems due to the fact that they are shallow, prey on unassuming women, and generally are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of seducing women. I prefer systems that concentrate on real relationships and treating women like human beings instead of a talking blow up doll.
If you study pickup artist strategies, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, ideology, code system, and ideals. Among the many pickup artist techniques and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is one of the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and acts as the skeleton/guideline for most of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set, meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the feared cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Should also include a Social Hook Point. This is the pivotal moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (women, group of women, group of guys/girls) want you to remain for a bit, since you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity through negging (playful teasing) or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You have to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are lots of pickup artist strategies to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), leading the discussion, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) need to be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're just attracted to her by her character or charm, other than her looks. You should have her earn your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you ought to be talking and relaxing. This is to establish a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to relax and just chitchat with each other, discover any commonalities, and start to connect to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections.
Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level. Here you want to toss in some stories that make you look vulnerable and delicate such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup tactics, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with correct timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's regret and you could blow everything!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery wisely says: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is moving too fast..." "I just met you..." "I'm not ready for this..." Or just pushes your hand away from her important areas. The majority of women don't want to feel like a slut so they will throw up some form of LMR. The key here is to not be desperate and needy but rather reinforce the idea that she desires this and you are offering a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
If you study pickup artist strategies, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, ideology, code system, and ideals. Among the many pickup artist techniques and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is one of the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and acts as the skeleton/guideline for most of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open
You open the set, meaning you initiate contact by approaching them. This includes the feared cold approaches, pickup lines, and beginning a conversation. Should also include a Social Hook Point. This is the pivotal moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (women, group of women, group of guys/girls) want you to remain for a bit, since you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity through negging (playful teasing) or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You have to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are lots of pickup artist strategies to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, gimmicks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), leading the discussion, etc.
A3. Male to Female Interest
In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) need to be baited into demonstrating her own value. By doing this, you're just attracted to her by her character or charm, other than her looks. You should have her earn your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you ought to be talking and relaxing. This is to establish a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to relax and just chitchat with each other, discover any commonalities, and start to connect to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections.
Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level. Here you want to toss in some stories that make you look vulnerable and delicate such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you instantly want to escalate the physical connection using kino (touching). Kinoing is the very best method to develop out of the nasty "buddy zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing gets serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup tactics, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to escalate from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with correct timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's regret and you could blow everything!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery wisely says: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "This is moving too fast..." "I just met you..." "I'm not ready for this..." Or just pushes your hand away from her important areas. The majority of women don't want to feel like a slut so they will throw up some form of LMR. The key here is to not be desperate and needy but rather reinforce the idea that she desires this and you are offering a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and call/email/text her. Don't be a jerk and ruin it for the rest of us. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
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