How Should You Communicate With Philippine Women?

By Dani Choi


Despite all the bad press against them, Filipino women have remained one of the most desired women among foreign men who want to marry traditional women, with "traditional" meaning the woman taking of the house and the men working to support the wife.

Although there are thousands of men who are married to Filipinas, there are many men out there who are still in the searching stage, although they've been using Filipino dating sites for two years or more. If this has been your experience, it might be that you are communicating in a way that turns of women from the Philippines instead of attracting them to you.

In this article, we will tell you about the three ways you should communicate with women from the Philippines so that they stay with you and not leave you out in the cold.

1. Don't put "hangin" in your communication

"Hangin" literally means wind in Filipino but there's a colloquial word called "mahangin", which refers to a person who brags too much or is cocky. If a Filipina loses interest in you after a few chats, it might be that you're coming across as mahangin. To be on the safe side of communication, you might want to start by letting a Filipina do most of the talking.

Really, on any given day, a Filipino woman will prefer a man who is down-to-earth and doesn't brag about who he is and what he's achieved in life.

2. Don't start the conversation with "poverty"

Despite what you may think, not all Filipino women are dirt poor. Many of then hold jobs and although their salaries might not be as high as women in the West (Filipinos typically earn $200 to $500 per month), it doesn't mean that they have less pride and self-respect. The biggest complaint Filipino women have about foreign men is that many assume that all women in the Philippines are dirt poor and just want someone who will save them from a bad financial situation.

3. Honesty is not always the best policy

Although being honest is good, when it comes to dating Filipino women, there are instances where being too honest will get you into trouble, like having a bad opinion about the Philippines or being honest about how many other women you're dating online. If there's one thing about Filipinas and Filipinos in general it's that they're not used to feedback and they're the jealous type.

While most Filipinas don't expect you to date them exclusively in the beginning, they don't like it when a man talks about other women or admits that he's dating others. It's just a weird thing that only jealous people will understand.

In conclusion, if you haven't had luck finding a decent Filipina who could possibly become your wife, maybe it's time to examine how you're communicating with the Filipino women you meet online. Really, although they're very friendly to foreigners, they're still women from a different culture. You will want to be more careful in how you communicate.




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