If your relationships never last or if they are always filled with stress and pain, your partner may be a psychopath. If you feel the pain, you are probably the co-dependent in the relationship because psychopaths rarely feel pain. They rarely feel anything at all. Just to be clear, let me define what I mean by a psychopath. A psychopath is closely related to an addict.
It's not unusual for a psychopath to also be an addict. A psychopath and a sociopath have very similar characteristics. For the sake of this article, I'm treating them both as psychopaths. I'm also lumping narcissists in the mix. All of them are selfish and destructive to your life. Their differences are really just a matter of degree. Psychopaths are far more common than you might expect. About 1 in 25 people are psychopaths. Many rise to positions of authority and power.
Psychopaths have the following characteristics: (This is a partial list, but you get the idea).
1.) Does not feel fear.
2) No Empathy.
3) High level of stress tolerance.
4.) Charm.
5.) Manipulative.
6.) Avoids responsibility.
7) Has no impulse control.
8.) Criminal tendencies.
9.) Does not feel remorse, although they will feel regret when things don't go their way.
10.) Lives off others.
A psychopath will only apologize to win something they want. They will not apologize when they hurt you, because they are not capable of remorse. They only apologize to regain control. Psychopaths will not change and cannot be fixed.
Emotionally healthy people will not tolerate a psychopath. A psychopath is only tolerated by someone who has been condition to accept them. That is someone who has been parented by a psychopath or psychopaths. A psychopath is wired to seek out the co-dependent who has been conditioned to willfully participate in their dysfunctional world.
Those who have one or both parents who are psychopaths are trained for the role of the victim and co-dependent. This person will actually seek out the psychopath because it is all they know about relationships. The co-dependent partner may actually be addicted to the psychopath. This makes escaping them extremely problematic.
When someone who has been parented by a psychopath enters a room filled with a hundred strangers, they will be paired with a psychopath within twenty minutes. A psychopath is not aware that other people are real. Other people, even an intimate partner, are merely objects to benefit them.
A healthy romantic relationship is a beautiful thing because it enriches your life. If a relationship is continuously painful and based on lies, it is better to be alone. Contrary to romance novels and movie scripts, love does not conquer all. It cannot conquer addiction, abuse or neglect.
It's not unusual for a psychopath to also be an addict. A psychopath and a sociopath have very similar characteristics. For the sake of this article, I'm treating them both as psychopaths. I'm also lumping narcissists in the mix. All of them are selfish and destructive to your life. Their differences are really just a matter of degree. Psychopaths are far more common than you might expect. About 1 in 25 people are psychopaths. Many rise to positions of authority and power.
Psychopaths have the following characteristics: (This is a partial list, but you get the idea).
1.) Does not feel fear.
2) No Empathy.
3) High level of stress tolerance.
4.) Charm.
5.) Manipulative.
6.) Avoids responsibility.
7) Has no impulse control.
8.) Criminal tendencies.
9.) Does not feel remorse, although they will feel regret when things don't go their way.
10.) Lives off others.
A psychopath will only apologize to win something they want. They will not apologize when they hurt you, because they are not capable of remorse. They only apologize to regain control. Psychopaths will not change and cannot be fixed.
Emotionally healthy people will not tolerate a psychopath. A psychopath is only tolerated by someone who has been condition to accept them. That is someone who has been parented by a psychopath or psychopaths. A psychopath is wired to seek out the co-dependent who has been conditioned to willfully participate in their dysfunctional world.
Those who have one or both parents who are psychopaths are trained for the role of the victim and co-dependent. This person will actually seek out the psychopath because it is all they know about relationships. The co-dependent partner may actually be addicted to the psychopath. This makes escaping them extremely problematic.
When someone who has been parented by a psychopath enters a room filled with a hundred strangers, they will be paired with a psychopath within twenty minutes. A psychopath is not aware that other people are real. Other people, even an intimate partner, are merely objects to benefit them.
A healthy romantic relationship is a beautiful thing because it enriches your life. If a relationship is continuously painful and based on lies, it is better to be alone. Contrary to romance novels and movie scripts, love does not conquer all. It cannot conquer addiction, abuse or neglect.
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