Dealing with relationships that are up one day and down the next is very difficult indeed. Not knowing what you will face from hour to hour is depressing at best. There are ways to help you get through these times and hopefully, on to better ones.
He's pulled back and you really don't know why. You don't know if he's going to call you or is it over. One day he's on, the next he's off. What does all of this really mean? Maybe it's not you.
The first thing women do when he stops calling is to feel that it must be something they have done to cause it. Did she say the wrong thing? Did she do something he didn't like? A sinking feeling leads to filling in the blanks about what may or may not have happened.
She wonders why he hasn't called lately and blames herself. She wonders if the relationship is over or maybe he really has someone else that she doesn't know about. She wonders what she may have said or done that caused him to change his pattern.
His pattern has changed and so she is at a loss. She calls, texts and gets no response. The problem is, she keeps doing it thinking maybe something is wrong with him. Maybe he's been in a car accident. It is very hard for her to accept the fact that he may be gone - forever.
When boy chases girl - things tend to work out better than when girl chases boy. This usually leads to boy running. Women are not as aware of this as they once were. It is straight biology! Men like to do the chasing by nature, but, when women do it they are perceived as being to easy to get.
When he stops contacting you, it is time to wait and do nothing. Let him do the pursuing as that is his biological nature. Basically, ignore him for a while.
- Stop trying to contact him at all
- Make him wonder what you are doing, instead of the other way around
- Make yourself scarce for a few days
- Don't answer your phone on the weekends
- Accept his contact only during the day
If he contacts you and wants to come over 'tonight' tell him you have other plans or that you are too tired. This will encourage him to plan ahead and have respect for you and the relationship. He needs to learn to work for what he wants and not have it just be given to him whenever he wants attention from you.
If he suddenly ceases to have regular contact with you, this is not the time to start contacting him. Fill your life up with friends and people from your work. Don't let him think you are wasting away thinking about him by your phone. When enough time goes by, he'll call which is when you shouldn't call back right away.
Playing hard to get encourages men to go get what they really want. And, they will if you set the tone. Pulling back from you is a sign that maybe he isn't really worth the effort or that he takes you for granted. You need to break his pattern of that and it can be done. And you can by following the steps above. If he doesn't respond, it is time to move on and quickly.
He's pulled back and you really don't know why. You don't know if he's going to call you or is it over. One day he's on, the next he's off. What does all of this really mean? Maybe it's not you.
The first thing women do when he stops calling is to feel that it must be something they have done to cause it. Did she say the wrong thing? Did she do something he didn't like? A sinking feeling leads to filling in the blanks about what may or may not have happened.
She wonders why he hasn't called lately and blames herself. She wonders if the relationship is over or maybe he really has someone else that she doesn't know about. She wonders what she may have said or done that caused him to change his pattern.
His pattern has changed and so she is at a loss. She calls, texts and gets no response. The problem is, she keeps doing it thinking maybe something is wrong with him. Maybe he's been in a car accident. It is very hard for her to accept the fact that he may be gone - forever.
When boy chases girl - things tend to work out better than when girl chases boy. This usually leads to boy running. Women are not as aware of this as they once were. It is straight biology! Men like to do the chasing by nature, but, when women do it they are perceived as being to easy to get.
When he stops contacting you, it is time to wait and do nothing. Let him do the pursuing as that is his biological nature. Basically, ignore him for a while.
- Stop trying to contact him at all
- Make him wonder what you are doing, instead of the other way around
- Make yourself scarce for a few days
- Don't answer your phone on the weekends
- Accept his contact only during the day
If he contacts you and wants to come over 'tonight' tell him you have other plans or that you are too tired. This will encourage him to plan ahead and have respect for you and the relationship. He needs to learn to work for what he wants and not have it just be given to him whenever he wants attention from you.
If he suddenly ceases to have regular contact with you, this is not the time to start contacting him. Fill your life up with friends and people from your work. Don't let him think you are wasting away thinking about him by your phone. When enough time goes by, he'll call which is when you shouldn't call back right away.
Playing hard to get encourages men to go get what they really want. And, they will if you set the tone. Pulling back from you is a sign that maybe he isn't really worth the effort or that he takes you for granted. You need to break his pattern of that and it can be done. And you can by following the steps above. If he doesn't respond, it is time to move on and quickly.
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