How To Start A Conversation With A Girl

By Olen Portie


A lot of guy nowadays are don't know on how they will start to have conversation with a girl they like. They feel shy to approach a girl that they like. So here are some ways on how to start a conversation with a girl.

First, you must have a casual conversation. You must introduce yourself to a girl with smile and say hello. Tell your name and ask the girl's name. You must keep it in a simple manner. And always have a polite manner in talking with them. Second is, you must ask if how she is doing. Ask the girl in a good manner way because it makes a good thought as it shows that you are truly interested and has the willingness to listen to the girl. As a result, the girl will feel relaxed and comfortable with your conversation.

If you intend to start a flirtatious conversation with a girl you really have to focus on non-verbal cues. You can use facial expressions, body language, or even turn your non-flirtatious compliments into comments with romantic tone. You can do this by maintaining eye contact and good smile. Just make sure to avoid negative body languages such as looking down her chest or crossing your arms as these will make you look creepy.

Your overall behavior is very important when starting a conversation with a girl. Project confidence, the key to a successful flirtatious conversation is confidence. Girls are more attracted to men that are capable, self-assured, and comfortable talking to women. Try to speak clearly and confidently, you must delivers your words and its message clearly and understandable.

In this way you can focus on the conversation you have started with her. Try to focus on the conversation without thinking about the possible outcome, that will not only make the conversation more fun but it will also make you an interesting person.

It does seem easier to be said than done. Of course, it is that easy to be certain around beautiful girl that you want, you will not know how to start a conversation with a girl. The best thing about here is to stop pressuring yourself whether the girl will reject you or not. Maybe she is the most beautiful girl in the world, but you have to know this, girl come and go, however the experience in starting a chat with a girl will remain. Once you failed with this one, there will another one that will come into your life and once it happen you already know the best way to approach and start a conversation with the girl by means of your experience.

Also, starting a conversation with a girl with controversial topics can make her feel uncomfortable, awkward, or even angry. Avoid asking her views about politics and religion as these are not effective. Try to start a conversation by praising her, asking her dreams, and other topics that are worth talking about.




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